Missouri Organization for Registration Education Inc.

Collateral Damage: Family Members of Registered Sex Offenders

Dr. Jill Levenson

The purpose of this study was to better understand the impact of sex offender registration and notification laws on the family members of registered sex offenders (RSO). An online survey was utilized to collect data from 584 family members across the United States.

Registration and Its Collateral Consequences 

Missouri and other states maintain sex-offender registration systems that impose requirements on individuals who meet statutory criteria.
The consequences of registration may extend beyond the registrant. Researchers have documented effects involving employment, housing, finances, family relationships, social isolation, stigma, and harassment.
Understanding these effects is important when evaluating whether particular restrictions achieve their intended public-safety objectives.

Where Do We Go From Here? 

Complex questions surrounding sexual abuse, prevention, registration, rehabilitation, and public safety deserve more than slogans.
We encourage schools, parents, community organizations, policymakers, and researchers to engage in informed discussions using credible research and established prevention resources.
Schools and community organizations can consider educational programs addressing:
  • Child sexual abuse prevention
  • Healthy boundaries
  • Safe adult-child interactions
  • Recognizing concerning behavior
  • Appropriate reporting procedures
  • Online safety
  • Prevention strategies for parents and caregivers
  • Professional boundaries for educators and youth-serving organizations
Organizations such as Stop It Now! and RAINN provide educational resources that can help families and communities have these conversations.

Discussion Topics for Parents and Community Groups

Who Is Supervising Your Child?

Before allowing a child to leave an event, activity, or gathering with an adult you do not know well, consider:

  • Who is the adult?

  • Where is the child going?

  • Who else will be present?

  • How long will the child be away?

  • Is there an established relationship or trusted connection?

  • Have appropriate adults been informed?

Children depend on adults to create safe environments. Thoughtful supervision and communication can reduce opportunities for abuse and misunderstandings.

Visiting a Teacher's Home

Parents may reasonably want clear information before allowing a child or teenager to visit a teacher's home or attend a private gathering.

Consider asking:

  • What is the specific purpose of the visit?

  • Who will be present?

  • Who will supervise the students?

  • What are the ages of the other attendees?

  • Where will the activities take place?

  • How long is the visit expected to last?

  • Is there another adult present?

  • Are school policies regarding off-campus contact being followed?

A straightforward conversation can help parents understand the circumstances and establish appropriate boundaries.

Protecting Educators and Students

Educators have an important responsibility to maintain appropriate professional boundaries with students. At the same time, educators can take reasonable steps to reduce misunderstandings and protect both themselves and their students.
Schools and educators should consider clear policies concerning:
  • One-on-one meetings with students
  • Communication through personal phones and social media
  • Transportation of students
  • Meetings outside school property
  • Home visits
  • Physical contact
  • Documentation of unusual or sensitive interactions
  • Presence of additional adults when appropriate
  • Reporting and safeguarding procedures
Clear policies can help protect students while also providing educators with consistent expectations and procedures.

Allegations, Due Process, and Lasting Consequences

An accusation of misconduct can have significant consequences even before a case is resolved. Individuals may face employment consequences, legal expenses, damage to professional reputations, and disruption to family relationships.
False allegations can cause serious harm. At the same time, concerns about false allegations should not discourage legitimate reporting of abuse.
A fair system must take allegations seriously while maintaining due process and distinguishing between an accusation, an investigation, an adjudication, and a criminal conviction.